SINGLE MOM SCHOOL · YOUR DIVORCE ROADMAP

You don’t need
the whole plan.
Just your next step.

Considering it. In the middle of it. Still finding your feet afterward. Start where you are. We saved you a seat.

WHERE ARE YOU RIGHT NOW?

There’s a place to start.

Choose what sounds closest. These stages overlap; you can come back to any of them.

YOUR STARTING POINT · 01

You can ask questions before you have answers.

You do not have to decide the rest of your life today. Start by understanding your options and what you need to feel informed.

One thing you can do today

Write down the three questions you most need answered. Bring them to a family law consultation.

When you have room for more

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Arrange a confidential consultation with a family law attorney in your state. Ask about options, costs, and what to consider before making changes.List your biggest concerns: the kids, money, housing, safety, or something else. Choose one to discuss first.Choose one trusted person who can listen and help with something practical. You do not owe everyone an announcement.

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A QUESTION TO TAKE TO YOUR ATTORNEY

“What should I understand before separating, moving, or discussing divorce with my spouse?”

Getting information does not commit you to getting divorced.

A little help for this part

Optional resources. You can use every step above for free.

Your Lawyer, Your Case & You

FOR THE MOMENT BETWEEN STEPS

Some days, the next step
is putting the phone down.

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About this roadmap & helpful sources

This is a general U.S. preparation guide, not a legal timeline or individualized legal or financial advice. State laws, deadlines, court procedures, and your own orders control. A family law attorney or court self-help service can help you understand your situation. If you do not have children, skip the parenting steps.

Helpful reading: California Courts’ divorce overview (California-specific), The Florida Bar’s divorce overview (Florida-specific), and WomensLaw safety planning. Reviewed October 26, 2026.